Life in itself is very short so why make it all complicated or live it in a shell which happens to be your assumptions. In as much as it is quite interesting to live in your mind especially "thoughts of positives," in that time of solitude and meditations there is always the need for clarifications, checking and double checking.
I sure believe that one way or the other we are all affected by these assumptions which eventually grow into monsters - gossip and grapevine. I will summarize this with little expressions you might be familiar with but have never thought of.
You miss someone, just call!
There is absolutely no need to keep on "forming" or just dey demo.
Want to meet someone or stuff alike, c'mon just invite!
You will only receive an answer that says YES or NO. Nothing more. It's quite better than assuming that maybe or maybe not the person fit no gree.
Want to be understood, Explain!
How more can i talk about this? You are in an argument and you state your suggestion but it seems not accepted and you choose to keep mute yelling, "okay, just forget," how do you want them to understand when you don't want to explain.
You have questions, Ask!
What's a better way to know if you don't ask?
You don't like it, just say it!
What's the point having it burden your heart and just keep mute? If you want to say it always do so nicely, after all, there is always a way to tell someone to go to hell and he asks for directions.
You like it, state it!
Definitely, you'll receive that "thank you" in return for sure.
You want something, Ask for it!
This happens to be our major problem. We just believe that the person concerned should know you want it. The person be God or juju man. Abeg jor!
Conclusively, no one knows whats going on in your mind, just express it and be free. As Nike would say, "Just Do It."
