Whose got the BBM infection?

Sometime between the last quarter of 2009 and first quarter of 2010 an infective bug was let loose more than before and its effects grew so exponentially. One that when it bites leaves one frenziedly frisking fingers through the keypads of the bug originator (phone). A chronic infection! This infection is the almighty BlackBerry Messenger (BBM). I guess that name is quite familair? The purchasing trend for a Blackberry phone increased not for the smartphone, business-official and email purpose but for the chatting ish - BBM.

What is the BBM? It is quite synonymous to the Yahoo messenger, GTalk, MSN, 2go etc. The plus side of the BBm is that it offers that aesthetics and allows you to do a little customizing of the characters you want to choose. It also gives room for your online friends to know the songs you are listening at a particular moment (This is actually a way to start up or spice up a conversation). The BBM is the only chat app that allows segmentation of friends into groups as well as choosing to belong to groups.

With all these positives the addiction and social nuisance transmitted by the BBM bug is overwhelming. From checking your phone first thing when you rise from bed to being the last thing you always want to  set your eyes on before going to bed. The major reason why you will always want to charge your Blackberry phone every hour. Driving and pinging is a different tale! Walking on the road or "watching TV" with eyes glued on the screens of the BBM device. Most annoying social nuisance is seeing people fiddling with their phones in meetings, executive meetings! A colleague of mine got a query for that from her boss for pinging during a meeting with a state governor in the governor's office. An honor she rubbished.

Annoyingly, the BBM can never be turned off as you can't sign out of it. The best you can do is turn your alert to the silent mode. What a bondage to be pitied. RIM why? Worst of all once you change your BB to a higher model you've got to start re-entering and re-adding all your contacts as these cannot be backed up on the PC manager or synonymous to the GTalk, Yahoo messenger, MSN etc. A burden of a job to do.

Interestingly, the sale of the Blackberry can never decline. Reasons being that the device has a very versatile in the sense that it makes you feel belonged among a particular clique - The BB people; all longed for by mature adults and the teeming youths, children inclusive. A perception that attaches the blackberry to an article of ostentation yet bringing an anti social behavior. Really?! A friend once said, "I never liked the Blackberry but my fiance wanted it so bad, I got it for her and right now I beg her for attention because she is so into her BBM than myself." What a confession. My cousin says without her Blackberry (BBM) she feels lonely and depressed.

I'll really like to know what you guys think. If you are a Blackberry phone user please tell us how you deal with and manage this infection or are you immune to it. Also, if you are not a BB user how do you feel not belonging to this group and how's the urge like wanting to join.

People get the comments coming...

How Important is Sex in relationships?

All of us crave for perfect relationships. All the emotional sharing, peace, provision, trustworthiness blah blah blah. This article is not to x-ray what a perfect relationship should look like because I believe that there is no perfect one rather people involved in the relationship seek mutual ways to attain "perfection"

SCENARIO A: Ben and Rose started dating a month ago. Rose is a strong believer of NO SEX in a relationship unless she is married. Ben knew this forehand before getting into the relationship. Ben anticipates sex and feels that one day Rose will yield to it or better still get it elsewhere.

Life is Short, Stop Living on Assumptions

Life in itself is very short so why make it all complicated or live it in a shell which happens to be your assumptions. In as much as it is quite interesting to live in your mind especially "thoughts of positives," in that time of solitude and meditations there is always the need for clarifications, checking and double checking.

I sure believe that one way or the other we are all affected by these assumptions which eventually grow into monsters - gossip and grapevine. I will summarize this with little expressions you might be familiar with but have never thought of.

You miss someone, just call!

There is absolutely no need to keep on "forming" or just dey demo.

Want to meet someone or stuff alike, c'mon just invite!

You will only receive an answer that says YES or NO. Nothing more. It's quite better than assuming that maybe or maybe not the person fit no gree.

Want to be understood, Explain!

How more can i talk about this? You are in an argument and you state your suggestion but it seems not accepted and you choose to keep mute yelling, "okay, just forget," how do you want them to understand when you don't want to explain.

You have questions, Ask!

What's a better way to know if you don't ask?

You don't like it, just say it!

What's the point having it burden your heart and just keep mute? If you want to say it always do so nicely, after all, there is always a way to tell someone to go to hell and he asks for directions.

You like it, state it!

Definitely, you'll receive that "thank you" in return for sure.

You want something, Ask for it!

This happens to be our major problem. We just believe that the person concerned should know you want it. The person be God or juju man. Abeg jor!

Conclusively, no one knows whats going on in your mind, just express it and be free. As Nike would say, "Just Do It."

Wickedness! HIV positive 55-year woman lures 12-year old boy into sex.

Wonders they say will never end. How on earth will people be this mean. This 55-year old Debra Flowers Haggerty knowing fully well she is HIV-positive went ahead to have sex with a minor, a 12-year old boy. God have mercy. Read full gist here.

This homosexuality disease - Video inside.

While growing up, by default I understood that the greatest attraction is MAN-WOMAN.

Sadly, the story is crazily different now. It now really looks fashionable to be a lesbian or gay! Gush! This is really absurd.

Just yesterday a friend kept complaining on how she got a hit by a so called sister. See vex nah. She wondered if she was no longer attractive to the mail folks.
Continue reading to see videos.

Well, this might be old gist though, but I saw some a really disturbing lesbian video which you can watch here. Interestingly, these girls were caught by some guys and were really dehumanized. See videos here.

NO KIDDING, THIS HOMOS THING IS A MASSIVE DISEASE OF THE BRAIN. REALLY DELUSIONAL. GUSH! GOD HAVE MERCY.

Designer Things; Introducing Louis Vuitton Condoms

And who said the designer things cannot get to the intimates? Please do think again! Fresh designer Louis Vuitton has launched a new line - The condoms. Interestingly, these condoms cost $68 (N10,500 Nigerian Naira) each. So hit your swag up.

Now tell me, will be be purchasing a condom for over 10k? Answer now ooooooooo.

In love with two men

This issue really got me thinking when I came across it. though I have always known stuffs like this exist.

I was opportune to read a very long SMS sent by a lady to a relationship expert. It goes thus:

"I'm a young lady of 27 and I think I've found myself in a dilemma. I am madly in love with two different men. I miss them both so dearly that I stay awake most nights with thoughts of them in my head. Most times I feel I'm really going insane but for sure the love I have for them seems to grow by the hour. I am really confused and need your assistance. Pls help me!!! - Yetunde."

I have researched via internet and books to know more about this situation. I saw so mush info on this. You can read it here or here or here

Please, please, please is this really possible and what do you make of it?Your contributions.

 

Why do you go to church

                                                  

A little mind bugging question. Please I need everyone to air his/her own sincere view. Why do you go to church? Get the comments coming.

Why do I need to get married?

Why do I have to get married? I guess everyone will be wondering what is it exactly this is about. Well just a little activation of my thought process. In my course of sampling both married and single individuals i can to an understanding that various persons have varying desires as to have they need to choose a mate, be it male or female.

For some it is just a need for a companion. Others their status need to change to a Mr. proper or Mrs. so they can occupy certain positions. And for most, the male folks mainly they need someone or people that will keep their name in continuity. Some for support and losts more.

I sure believe that most of us having other varying reasons. Just bare your mind here and share your views. Waiting...